its pricey but the dualsense edge is my favorite controller of all time.
symmetrical sticks are better for retro games (dpad position is more comfortable) and modern games (easier to claw grip the dpad to change items while moving for example).
back buttons are surprisingly useful for every genre. i have dodge bound to the same back button no matter what game or genre im playing.
hair triggers are great for soulslikes and other action games that dont require analog triggers.
its pricey but the dualsense edge is my favorite controller of all time.